Classified sex ads advice is not a difficult thing to give, but it always astounds me at how difficult some men find it to take. They think that they have all the answers to dating online and how to post the best classifieds, but when you actually look at their success rate, it is laughable. Over the years that I have researched internet dating, through both taking part and from afar, I have found out exactly how you can succeed best online. Like I say, it is not difficult advice to come up with or give, and you will kick yourself for not having done it previously, but some men will still fight it. Read through the list below and you will find out exactly why I think this is the best way to get women on online dating sites.
Once you are set on trying online dating, whether it be for actual dating, or just for sex with interesting women, then you need to find the right sites to either sign up to, or to post on. If you want proper dating, then you can try proper dates sites, of which there are numerous. These sites allow you to post pictures, add profiles and search for women that you might be interested in, as well as trying to match you with women who share your passions and interests. These are good sites but can be a bit overwhelming. That is why some people still prefer to go old school, and either post of local newspaper sites, in actual dead-tree newspapers like the Chicago tribune, or on classified adverts sites, such as craigslist. These do not give you the options that the others do, but do have two big advantages. One, they have a certain immediacy to them. Someone will read you ad that day and get into contact for a date or such pretty much straight away, without going through the whole online dance that you find on online dating sites. And two, they are often hyper-local. The women reading these types of ads will definitely be in the neighborhood, so you can see why it is so quick and easy to meet them.When you go through these sites you will also come across what other classified adverts or profiles other men have written with the express intention of getting women. You will then feel immediately better about yourself. The men on these sites are not selling themselves like they have to. When you write an ad or a profile, you always have to keep in mind that you are trying to sell yourself, body, mind and spirit to the women involved. They are the buyers, and just like in a shop, will toss you aside if they do not think you are worth it. Make sure you show them in your profile that you are worth it.
Men that talk about dumbbells are dumbbells. That is probably why one is used to name the other. If all your talk online is about your reps at the gym, your washboard and your tan then I am afraid to say that you are in the group I called out above, and everyone is laughing at you. Luckily you have realised it, otherwise you wouldn’t be here and you can immediately put it right. The same goes for if you think money is the way to win a women’s heart. I am not saying it doesn’t help, but if that is all you got, you screwed dude.Now that you have realised your mistakes then you can go about putting it right. You have to make sure that your classified adverts are the ones that leave an indelible mark on her mind, in a good way. Talk about what you are passionate about, and what you like to do at weekends, or in the evening. Better still, tell a specific story that shows parts of your personality you want ot show off, and that she will want to see. This way it makes something good to read as well as a good advertisement.
Keep Some Mystery
Of course, don’t lay it all out on a platter for the world to see. No one likes a guy that is too needy and wants to tell the world his problems. Although it is OK for men to be sensitive now, it still pays to play the hard man a bit, especially to start with. This adds an air of mystery to you so that the girl will want to get to know you and find out more and more over time. Women also like the idea of a challenge, and changing a hard man to an open softy over time will allow them to feel great about themselves, even if you had planned it all along.